HELLO BEAUTIFUL SOUL
I'm Lolitaire — a transformation life coach and wellness consultant who believes you CAN have the life you dream of
IDENTITY PURPOSE LEGACY JOY PEACE TRANSFORMATION LIBERATION IDENTITY PURPOSE LEGACY JOY PEACE TRANSFORMATION LIBERATION IDENTITY PURPOSE LEGACY PEACE
MY MISSION
To support & equip women in finding their voice, standing in their power, knowing their worth & transforming their lives.
Therefore rewriting their emotional and financial legacies by leading bold lives of purpose, influence & fulfillment.
WHILE BRINGING JOY & HEALING INTO EVERY ROOM
NEVER WITHOUT
Earphones + Lip moisturizer
FAVOURITE TRAVEL MEMORY
Tandem para-gliding in Queenstown, NZ
PROBABLY LISTENING TO
An eclectic playlist on Spotify
PERSONALITY TEST
Enneagram 3, ISFP-T
That two souls divinely unite in a unique process of co-creation, when we work together
A FEW THINGS I BELIEVE
I've been where you are...
You are enough
I grew up as the oldest of 3 children, and -though it was never said to me- from a young age I always felt that my true self was 'too much' and I never felt 'enough'. I have silently dealt with what I can now identify as fear and anxiety.
Through my teen years and well into my 20s I played the 'good-girl' role, always putting other people's needs and desires above my own, and believing my voice did not matter. I constantly sought external validation and 'success measures' to validate my worth & relevance.
At age 17, I was seeing a counsellor for support around my parent's divorce, and I remember her looking at me sincerely as she uttered the words ''inferiority complex'' and it was only 10 years later that I realized what that truly meant.
At the time, from the outside this probably seemed unbelievable. This continued well into my 20s, I believed I had potential and that I was meant for more but self-doubt, low self-worth and imposter syndrome plagued me at every turn. Even when I succeeded and was put in multiple leadership roles, I told myself it was a fluke and I did not deserve it.
I was 'successful' by many other measures
But inside was a hurt little girl who felt there was something inherently flawed and lacking in her. This led to burnout, breakdowns in relationships, loneliness and anxiety.
This was until I found personal development, healing & coaching, which started to change me from the inside out.
You have potential
I want the same for you
I went through a process of releasing and rewriting beliefs and narratives that told me playing 'the good girl' was safe. I came to an understanding and knowing that my worth is inherent and healed from past experiences that were still holding my heart and mind captive. I want this for you too!
You see, it's often the external societal and cultural narratives that we internalize, particularly as women. They whisper we should be living our lives a certain way, on a particular time frame and judge when we deviate from the status quo. A combination of this invisible internalized conditioning, upbringing and traumas, inform how we show up and view the world everyday.
Personal development & Coaching are the reason I am where I am today, running my own Osteopathy practice and coaching business. Younger me would not believe it!
Now, I know I am whole & worthy. I know that I am a powerful (we all are!). I know that my voice matters. I know that my mission matters. I know that I get to serve others from this overflow.
Over the last 4years I have honed my coaching craft & methodologies from my start as a Health Coach, to my evolution as a Transformational Life & Wellness Coach.
A process which helps women like you achieve your definition of success and make an impact by reconnecting to your true self, reframing your story, releasing self-doubt, building self-trust, and stepping into your power with confidence & courage
My approach is holistic and combines mindset, somatics, positive psychology & values-based coaching in a way which facilitates deep transformation in all areas of your life.
It would be an honour to co-create your next-level life with you.
Why me? (aka the credentials!)
I'm a Certified & Qualified Coach
I hold Life Coach, Health Coach and Trauma-informed Coach Certifications
I am a meditation Teacher and Mindfulness practitioner in training
I take my proficiency & skills seriously. This is your LIFE we are talking about!
I have been where you are
I have my own story of realizing my worth, standing in power, being courageous enough to make an impact through my work
I now run my own Osteopathy practice where I infuse coaching, trauma-informed care & stress-management, as well as supporting women through coaching.
Younger me would not believe it!
My Approach is unique & wholistic
My unique combination of mindset, somatics, positive psychology & values-based coaching facilitates deep transformation in all aspects of life, business and work.
My clients are both surprised by and enjoy my warm, intuitive, get-to-the-core style, which is facilitated in a safe & supportive space I have a natural ability to hold.
